Relationship check-up list Tweet The gangstas at the Huff Post have compiled a list of 10 signs that your relationship is pretty much dunzo. In case you needed a check lise.. Here they are: Your number one source of stress is your significant other. You can't see yourself being with your S.O. for the long haul. There's a breakdown in communication -- and that's OK with you. You're happier alone than with your partner. You are your partner's sounding board -- and little more.(wtf does that mean?) You think about breaking up. Your partner tries to corral you away from you family and friends. Your S.O. constantly threatens to end it. You feel like an option in your S.O.'s life. When it comes to how you live your life, your partner is firmly in the driver's seat. So.. How ya doing?